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Gay-specific Std Question?

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I’ve been having sex with my boyfriend for a few months, though neither of us have been tested for STDs in the past year. We have always used condoms, except for oral sex, which has been unprotected. We haven’t ejaculated in the mouth though. I’ve had a very mild sore throat continuously ever since I started performing oral sex on him a few months ago. I didn’t think much of it until today I noticed that there are a few tiny whiteish bumps deep under his (uncircumcised) foreskin,right at that spot where foreskin, shaft, and penis head meet. Also, he has a larger (pimple-sized) pinkish bump on his inner thigh, and his inner thighs are darker-colored, almost as if bruised (though it doesn’t seem to be going away). I asked him about the discoloration and he said that’s just normal for Chinese people like himself.
Any idea what’s going on with him? Are these all harmless things, or should I stop having sex with him and get him and myself to the doctor ASAP?
Thanks!

  1. JimmyLee Says

    I’m a Chinese gay male. Personally, I don’t know anything about the dark skin on his inner thighs (I have light skin) but the pink bump could just be anything, like skin irritation or an ingrown hair (like someone already mentioned).
    I totally understand the whitish bumps under the foreskin and they’re totally normal. I have those too and I’m a virgin. I first discovered them when I was 13 and I FREAKED. I was totally paranoid that I could be carrying some disease at the time. Finally I had two doctors look at them, both of them told me that they’re normal and I shouldn’t worry about them. I believe they’re called Fordyce’s Spots. Although they appear nasty and very concerning, they’re not any form of STI’s and are not contageous.
    EDIT- I did a bit more research on the dark skin and I realized that my sister has those. She has patches of dark skin under arms. They’re just normal colouration of the skin and they’re natural, so don’t worry about those.

  2. Brett Says

    I would go to the doctor just to be safe. It’s always wise to get checked before you have sex with someone, and have them get checked also.

  3. guy Says

    well personally before i have sex with anyone i suggest that we both take STD tests for proof. i even take the test with him (just so he wont think im assuming he has STD’s) but that’s just me

  4. Curtis Says

    The small white bumps could possibly be HPV which can cause genital warts. A sore throat could be anything. Dark shades on inner thighs can happen, it’s not necessarily a disease. The bump on his leg is most likely an ingrown hair. If neither of y’all have ever been tested, it would be a good idea to go in together. You should always be tested at a minimum once a year. Every six months if you have any reason to believe that either of you are sleeping around. I get tested every six months, just because, even if I’m not having sex. It is just a good habit to get into.

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